It is a very obvious question that how many times we really blame our self for our mistakes. If our relation is in vain, we blame our partner, if we choose wrong career, we blame our guardians, if we are not healthy, we blame food, if we are not paid good, we blame our boss, but in all this stuffs where we stand???
Do we really consider our self before us complaint against others? Most probable answer must be NO ! Still today, I find my friends take their time out not to sought out there problems, but to discuss there reasons, and more often , this discussion is concentrated on other people. We can blame, we can regret, we can curse, but can’t justify why we failed. There may be millions and millions excuses for our unsatisfying job, but don’t they really add up to more of that failure. Once a mistake is committed, once we denied the opportunity, once we failed, then it becomes a fact, no matter what excuse we give the loss/failure is done, nothing but the effect will last for ever.
We may try to make other feel that it was not a worthy reason for that loose, but no one has the time to work on it. The only thing that matters is the outcome; the world is becoming more of a statistical one. If our job produces perfect result, our failure is not the part of our legacy. But if we fail, it turns big... It is a perfect way, the universe treats itself. And why not, it’s also correct, if I need to win, I have to do the best, no chance for taking and foot back…
Failures are not meant to feel guilty or sadness…rather meant to adapt and do the unthinkable…do justify your legacy of achievements and leave the bitter past behind otherwise…someday somewhere someone will give a better justification of our failure. And that day we will feel pity for ourselves…and that’s not a good thing to experience… AND I CAN BET ON THAT!
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